Discretion matters most to both sides. With these ten tips your meeting stays relaxed, safe and confidential.
Before the meeting
- Spot genuine profiles: look for complete details, consistent photos and a plausible way to get in touch. Unusually low prices or requests for advance payment are warning signs.
- No advance payment to strangers: never transfer money or buy gift cards for “reservations” – that is a typical scam.
- Use your own number, but sparingly: if you want to be especially discreet, use a separate number or a messenger.
- Clear arrangements: agree on time, duration, place and price in advance.
At the meeting
- Neutral meeting place: for many, hotels are the most discreet choice – the lady comes straight to your room.
- Hygiene and protection: a well-groomed appearance goes without saying, condoms are required by law.
- Respect and boundaries: no means no – no discussion.
- Pay at the start: have the agreed amount ready in exact change.
After the meeting
- No photos, no data: do not share pictures or details with others.
- Report suspicions: if you notice signs of coercion, minors or exploitation, inform the police or a specialist counselling centre.
You will find suitable ads in the overview by city. Read more about the legal rules in the article The German Prostitute Protection Act explained.